I don't consider something hidden if someone tells you where they are. "Put away" might be a more accurate description, and some people might prefer that rather than right nearby, where it could feel like one was being pressured to cry. I guess i don't think there is just one "right" place to put the kleenex and anyone who does it differently than me is the problem.
In my determination of good therapy, it has nothing to do with where the kleenex are kept. Nor does it depend on whatever's written about a therapist or how they talk on the phone. I try to reserve my expectations for building a solid relationship that allows me to work on my issues. I think you'd be better off being open minded about the possibilities rather than so judgmental after just one session.
|