Is there any way to have it in the house without your husband having to constantly see it? I know I'd be bothered if my boyfriend suddenly brought in something that was very obviously reminding of somebody else than his family. But if it were kind of out of my sight it'd be okay. Similar example: I keep things my T gave me (like an unused tissue, a note stating my next scheduled appointment) in a drawer, but I don't hang them on the wall. I think it's okay in a relationship to have things that remind you of other people, but I can look at these things or hold them or whatever on my own, my partner doesn't need to be involved.