what’s on the planet is he doing holding his granddaughter on his dating profile? So very inappropriate. Is granddaughter a minor? How bizarre. This guy makes bad choices.

I’d not communicate to him via dating sites. That’s why I prefer eharmony. People can’t see you unless you being matched up. I’d not like to see exes on dating sites.

If you two really think you could make it work then why are you both on dating sites? It’s not very fair to other people who might view your profiles. They don’t know you two are not over each other and even contact each other via dating site. I’d rather get over my ex before I join dating sites and I hope others do the same. Or I’d feel tricked

I understand you are hurting but I think you are better off moving on. If he wants you bad enough, he’ll come around. If not, you’ll enjoy your life without him