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DazedandConfused254
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Default May 03, 2019 at 08:50 PM
 
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Originally Posted by StreetcarBlanche View Post
Nothing wrong with you at all, DazedandConfused254. I never liked casual sex when I was in my early 20s (I tried to hookup three times with three different guys, and felt lousy afterward). I'm no virgin mary but the experience went against my moral standards something major.

Everyone has a preference when it comes to casual sex. I know a lot of women and men who have casual encounters while in between relationships, with other people, until they find someone to be in a relationship with. That's not something I can do because it goes against my ideals.

Just stick to your ideals and don't let anyone pressure you into changing your ideals to make them happy. Make yourself happy first.
Thanks for your reply Streetcar. I guess how we approach those relationships is on a very non-controversial level, what kind of food we like. I may go to a Chinese restaurant and may absolutely hate the style they prepare their food, so I'll try another place. Coming from the south I'm also a huge fan of Tex Mex, but would I shame people for thinking it's too greasy? Never! Likewise no way on earth I'll give up my love for Mexican anytime soon ;p Seems to me that's can be the same way with approaches to relationships.

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