What a lovely post! Thank you for sharing, Stuck1nhead.
I am so glad to hear that things are going well for you folks. With regard to your ring, what about wearing it on a chain around your neck? I have a couple of friends who opted for that for their own reasons. Tattoo? I don't know. That sounds a bit drastic to me but if it feels right to you, you are the only one who can determine that.
I continue to wish you peace, hope, and a bright future. You deserve it!