I think life requires a combination of niceness and fight. Fight sometimes/ often means being assertive with myself about my goals and self-care. Fight means perseverance. Fight means asking myself "what can I learn here" rather than "why are people treating me so mean".
Niceness with boundaries is another important combination, just in my personal experience.
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*"Fierce <-> Reality"*
oh god I am struggling today, help me to remember how to stay connected and human!
remember: the nut shell against human predators and my own fear!
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