My son is getting married this autumn. It's going to be a small, very informal ceremony at the home of his fiancee's parents. I'm super anxious because I've never been to a wedding and we haven't met her family. Frankly, based on what future DIL tells me about them they sound kind of imposing, lol, although she's very easy going.

Anyway, even though it's months away I'm stressing about the planning. I have to book a place to stay nearby since it's hours from where we live, pick something to wear, etc. Even though my husband and I know what we're giving the couple as a wedding gift it suddenly occurred to me that we should give a gift to our future DIL's parents. Is it customary to do this? Either way, it would feel odd to show up at their house empty-handed. I thought of a food item but they're hosting a big dinner at the house afterward, so not sure if that's right. I'm terrible when it comes to gift giving ideas unless I know someone really well. Any ideas would be appreciated.