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Originally Posted by Innerzone
Sorry, just saw this xRavenx. How are you feeling about it today? I've not gone the online route (in the traditional sense anyway), but am always curious how it goes for others. (Maybe someday, I don't know.) I've been doing really well (psychologically) for, well 7 months anyway, and part of that has been getting back into my old interests. Even if you're not currently doing them, can you come up with a list of them? Like, what they have traditionally been for you? Are any of them things you might have in common with others that you could maybe do together? Have you ever tried any MeetUps? Might energize your interests.
I've not thought far enough ahead to worry what calamity might come in any potential relationship. Figure I'll just take it a step at a time and see what happens.
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Thanks for your response. After meeting with my pdoc today, she thinks I should wait til my mood is stabilized before moving forward with dating. I've been rapid cycling, but have been putting pressure on myself to do things that people around me are doing (i.e. dating, moving forward in life). But maybe that's not healthy for me right now.
When manic, I tend to write like crazy, shop, and buy things. Or I'll make really bad decisions as far as who I surround myself. So those hobbies are not really that healthy or what anyone wants to hear on a dating site. When depressed, I just stay in my room. Way back when I was in a better frame of mind, I used to enjoy just going to restaurants, listening to live music places, and typical things like that. I want to be ready.... but I guess I shouldn't pressure myself. My pdoc started me on a new medication today. Maybe that will even me out and get me to a healthier place where I am finally ready.