Thanks, Lrad123...frequently, I feel the need to tell my T that I did or didn't feel especially close during a session, but when he does go out of his way to be attentive and uses body language to increase closeness, I think sending an email or text is something I might use. I'm about to lose my T (not quite 4 years, but it's been intense and helpful beyond words), so it's particularly difficult to say anything related to closeness without crying.