Fuzzy, thank you for your lovely words about me and others.

I think it's amazing that, despite the hurt and anger, you still strive constantly for empathy and love for others. We may not yet be the person we really want to be. That may be due to past circumstances. But we can choose what we desire to be. This is your choice.

As for the rest ... we all make mistakes, have our weaknesses, and even some inconsistencies. I don't expect perfection. I certainly don't expect affection from everyone I encounter. All I ask for is that people make some sort of effort to be kind and considerate. That makes up for a lot. I've been through a lot and made a complete hash of things. Sometimes a little kindness and consideration is all we have. If that's your basis, the rest tends to sort itself out.