I went back and found this thread because I remember writing it last year. Well, it has been a whole year and nothing has changed with this friend. The same old thing.

Only thing new is I have decided she is a malignant narcissist.

She probably kept coming back into my life to use me as narcissistic supply.

I didn't see it because I didn't want to see it. With the years she has grown cruel and even boundary setting doesn't work with her.

"No Contact" is the only way to end this long friendship.