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Originally Posted by susannahsays
Hey, Omers. Just saw your comment on the Dear T thread. I'm sorry to hear your husband said those hurtful things to you. Lots of times when people feel insecure, they react by attempting to make other people feel as insecure as they do. It sounds like he got to you and you are now feeling insecure. I do understand what you and your therapist were hoping to accomplish with openness. My concern is that being open about such a sensitive subject with somebody who can't be trusted to not go on the attack gives that person ammo they can use to hurt you.
I hope your session goes well, and I really hope the visit about getting your son into a group home is promising.
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Thanks. I am in T’s parking lot now chilling before going in. I sent an email and warned T about all the stuff H brought up and how insecure I was feeling... then the comfort item blew a seam in the dryer... pure panic and plastic filling everywhere! But got it patched and with me... we shall see. If T and I can’t do the weighted blanket thing today (because I get too scared or won’t ask) at least we will have LOTS of stuff to talk about... then home to see how much of a mess I have to hide in 2hrs or less before caseworkers... then... TO THE COUCH! Yes, the PC couch.
