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Originally Posted by golden_eve
That’s good! It’s great you know this about yourself.. . Im envious! I really only brought it up since that’s how I am and narcs and softer, empathic people tend to be drawn to one another. I have been easily manipulated and have had the wool pulled over my eyes. Another story for another day. I love Bob Marley too! I am in the Caribbean right now in fact!!!
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You are in the Caribbean???!!!! I am so jealous. I can almost smell the lushness! I was in Jamaica and the smells were so great there.
Well, this is an older narcissistic relationship. From childhood.
I think I have changed because no new narcissist have entered my life recently.
This is going to sound terrible but I am now more selectively compassionate. I don't go around with my heart on my sleeve. I am not as "nice" and you know, it is a big change. But there you are in the Caribbean where everyone is nice!
It's our western culture, I think, that breeds narcissism. In this culture we can't afford to go around wearing our hearts on our sleeve.
I am too jealous now that you are in the Caribbean. Have a wonderful time, sweetie! I am going to go listen to some Bob Marley and the Wailers now in your honor!