Rose, I guess I just don’t understand what’s wrong with getting rest, i.e. staying in bed for awhile, when you’re exhausted and the attendant is there to care for your bf. Seems sensible to me, to rest while you can. Soon enough, you’ll have to be up and around again.
And if travelling far from our family roots and not having family around is something to be cruelly punished for, I think a whole lot of us are in trouble!