Oh My God! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think I remember you from Psych Central a long time ago when you were suffering through relationship issues, and housing issues, and career issues. It seems you have turned a corner. Congratulations and blessings!

In fact, I went to Jamaica on my honeymoon. It was amazing!!!!!! I have the best memories...and the best photos!

There is always a place for the "pure of heart and soul" in this world. In fact, the world needs this more than ever. We just have to be protective, yes, and that's okay.

As I said I am now more selectively compassionate. Like I don't talk to every homeless person who approaches me on the street. Some homeless guy approached me a few weeks ago to buy a smoke. (I don't even smoke.) I told him, "Look, I don't talk to strangers on the street, and I especially don't talk to men on the street I don't know. It is just my personal policy." He looked at me with frustration and threw up his hands then walked away. I smiled as it was kind of amusing. In the old days I might have ended up handing over $20. Once I literally gave the shirt off my back to a homeless kid! A very nice red flannel shirt! I had another shirt on. ---- But now I give to charities and I don't give hand-outs or the clothes off my back to strangers!

However, in the Caribbean I hope you are tipping everyone and tipping generously.

Girl, why are you on Psych Central while on your honeymoon? That's hilarious! You should be running around in a bikini, drinking rum, snorkling...and of course the rest of it.