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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
I am also angry at myself. I knew she was treating me poorly and it had become especially bad in the last few years...but I kept hiding the truth from myself. I didn't want to be confronting because I knew what would happen.
Narcissists and their temper tantrums! That's what happens when you cross them. They get into a rage and then discard you and the whole thing is humiliating.
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Truth. Mine stole over £500 of weed I'd put aside, while I was giving her free access to smoke whatever she wanted from the cheap stuff (she smoked at least 1K of that). When I was completely out of smoke and I went to fetch the reserve jar and found it empty,
I had to make a choice: confront her about the theft and get met with denial and anger and fight for the next couple of weeks about it, or accept that it was gone and forget about it. I chose the latter because I figured that my relationship was more valuable than weed (the opposite was true in her mind apparently). She asked to roll a joint from the dust left in the jar and I said that I was going to save it for myself. Of course, she kicked off about that and we had a fight for a few weeks because of how "selfish" I am and what a "bad partner" I was.
The mind of these people is bonkers. Who robs you blind, then gets angry because you don't give them the change in your pocket too. And what sort of love blind idiot was I to overlook and rationalise away such obvious contempt?