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Default May 07, 2019 at 10:41 AM
 
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Originally Posted by elevatedsoul View Post
Why is it important for me to remember and know in order to get better?
Why cant i just be successful and not connect the dots?

Its impossible for me to repair this
Elevated these are questions that only your own treatment providers can answer for you based on your mental disorder (borderline personality disorder)

what I can do is tell you that dissociative disordered compartmentalization (dissociatively avoiding ) and detachment (dissociatively distancing) is different than borderline personality disorder compartmentalizing (willfully avoiding) and detachment (willfully distancing) than it is with dissociative disorders.

the dissociative kind is not about making choices and behaviors like being successful or connecting the dots.

my suggestion is contact your treatment providers they will explain in more detail than I can get into here and help you find the answers that you are looking for.
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