Perhaps those may be all the people that your wife's mother didn't manage to talk to or say goodbye one last time? Perhaps those are people you, your wife and her mother just don't see very often? Just some thoughts! I'm so sorry you and your wife are struggling the loss of your wife's mother! It will take time to cope with your loss and to heal! Please try bo as much patient as you can be like you're already wonderfully doing! I'm sure you know that alread! Remember that we'll ALWAYS be here for you and that we'll NEVER abandon you! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE!!!!! I'm so sorry you and your wife have to deall with all of this, Humpty Dumpty! Please be kind to yourself and take GREAT CARE OF YOURSELF, like Thunder Bow has already wisely said better than I ever could! That's ALL we're asking you! Sending many hugs to you and your wife, Humpty Dumpty!!!!!