No you weren’t being rude. I had a therapist a few years ago who cared a lot what I wore. If I wore a shirt with a cartoon character on it she would say I was being childish. Even though it was in an adult size. If I had dressed nicely that day then the receptionist would gossip to her before my session and as soon as I’d walk in the therapist would say “the receptionist said your dressed nicely today.” One time I wore a skeleton hoodie and the therapist sarcastically said “dressed for Halloween again huh Mountaindewed?”

This is my first time meeting with this therapist so I don’t know what she’s like. I think I’m just going to wear a hoodie and jeans. What I usually wear when I’m working that day.