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Originally Posted by Mopey
Posted by Crypts:
This is precisely why I do not trust counselors - but have learned to "use" rather than place any sort of "dependance in" them.
Can you clarify for me, Crypts? Am I understanding you don't trust counselors because they may end up abandoning you?
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Not abandoning no - bc of what the op asked.
I have had counselors say to me (while my abuser was in the room) "well no wonder he treats you as he does - look how he treats you"
Or "you don't know how to treat people"
Or "I have lots of other clients with issues worse than yours. I don't understand why this still bothers you. It was years ago. Get over it." (When speaking on my abuse or rape issues)
Amongst other hurtful things.
I have also had them talk about me to other counselors without my consent.
I just do not trust them.