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Dorri, we are the winners because we survived, you must remember that the abuser has to face themseves each day and we get to help others like us, sound pretty positive don't cha think?
Angie

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you know...that's something i never thought about before. the one who abused me done jail time and doesn't have a friend in the world. despite what he done though...i don't wish misery like that on him but the man still has no remorse so that's his problem. and you're right...no matter how bad i feel i'm lucky enuff to have ppl who care for me and i've been lucky enuff to have been able to help others like me...both in personal life and in my last job. thanx for those words Angie.