consider this point...

when a man (myself) engages in "sexually acting out" by using internet pornography/phone sex/online affairs, he is really cheating
on his wife (like mine) because sexual addiction is not about
sex, but feelings of lonliness and isolation, trying to fill a void that my wife isnt fulfilling...therefore if im online
watching pornography and I could somehow be tranformed into
that movie/image/etc. ....do you think I would............yes

I have never had sex with anyone other than my wife but when I am
sexually acting out I am willing to "forget about my so called wife" in search of companionship and good feelings even if it is only
in cyber world....the thought process is there and if it could go to the next level you can bet it would happen..