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Default May 09, 2019 at 06:14 PM
 
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Originally Posted by PurpleMirrors3 View Post
Unless he told you that you couldn’t, it seems to me that the healthy thing to do is to just to email your therapist as often as you need to.

There’s plenty of time later to cultivate interests and work through dependency issues.

IMO the important therapy thing right now is to get you through this crisis in one piece.
I did email him and he did reply a day later. He knows my husband is away and suggest I watch The Call to Courage from Brene Brown on Netflex which I am doing.

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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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