I think there needs to be studio apartments with visiting nursing services. My old pdoc wanted me to have a daily visiting nurse. He wanted me to try to get home cleaning service. Sometimes I’m too sick to cook, shop and clean even if I’m not a danger to myself I need extra help. I’m lucky enough to have my husband who can pick up the slack sometimes. When it’s just me and him we will get a much smaller place, if I get my way. If I was to be on my own I would need help.

I don’t trust ANYONE. I don’t open my door for mail or people knocking. I don’t talk unless my husband is there. I don’t go outside. I certainly don’t let anyone in my house, (Including maintenance). I don’t go into stores. I don’t stay in the house alone just in case someone breaks in. Hell I only answer the phone unless it’s family and that’s when I’m well. I have no idea what getting help will look like when I need it