Hell mattdad. I have dated people to whom I was not physically attracted. I don't think physical appearance is very important. I appreciate a good character, humor, similar values etc. Those are lasting connections as opposed to height, nice face etc. Interestingly, sexual attraction can grow and evolve over time when you meet someone who is very interesting in other ways. Though I realize that may not be the case for you since you don't have sexual attractions. Nothing wrong with that. Do what works for you and your other half. I wish you both peace, laughter, and adventures!