I had another thought on this very interesting topic you raised Mattdad. There are folks who experience severe and permanent disfigurement as a result of burns or surgeries to remove cancer (I knew one man who lost an eye and a large part of his brain and skull due to surgery to remove brain tumors) and many of them will enter into relationships. Their partners may not perceive them as physically beautiful or handsome....does that mean they should never date again?? Does that mean that the people who date them are dishonest or doing something wrong?? Absolutely not! Thanks for raising this topic and for sharing your truth!