((((((((Soliaree)))))))
Working through the anger was the hardest part of the rupture for me.
Finally, I figured which of the anger was old and which was new. I discussed this forever. Keep going. Keep talking. You can work through this. And, yeah I would want to tell on him too! (The other T).
At this point, I think you should take a grocery bag with you when you go to therapy and put it over the hippo's head during your session. Don't say a word--just walk in and bag him. Then when your session is over, remove the bag and walk out. Yes, very effective!!!
Peace