I also wonder what’s different in your interactions now when you aren’t just friends and are dating? Going by you saying that you don’t really care about relationships and it sounds like there is no chemistry between you two, what prompted you to date versus remain friends?

And what do you two doing now that you think makes it dating in comparison to those years when you were friends?

Not saying you must answer these questions here but just a food for thought for you and for us some more understanding of dynamics between you two (if you do answer)