Hello LacunaCoiler,

thank you for sharing your truth and insight. That cannot be easy. You mentioned some cognitive-linguistic changes but I would like to mention that you are a beautiful writer. I am so sorry that you had a CVA and also struggle with bipolar disorder. I cannot speak for Betty but I found your words very compelling. I imagine that it will help many readers on PC...there are lots of people who read about particular concerns without posting. I hope it will comfort you to know that your candid truth is bringing solace to others. And I am very glad to hear that specialists continue to help you in the ways you need.

Your point is well made about how brain damage affects different people. I did not mean to suggest that frontal lobe damage is the only cause of problems. Nor am I here to diagnose anyone of course. I just mentioned frontal lobe impairment as one example to highlight how things can really go awry neurologically and lead to some dramatic behavioral changes which the survivor would never desire or choose. Two people could even survive a similar type of CVA and still present quite differently so a case by case analysis from specialists, as you suggested, is very important. Every brain is complex and unique.

It was very kind and brave of you to share your perspective with Betty. Your recommendation of the support group is wonderful. I wish you and your wife peace, hope, and a bright future. Take good care of yourself LacunaCoiler.