Know what brought my gram to all smiles and true alertness, one particular visit? My sons, myself and my uncle discussing sports. I'm clearly not a Philly fanatic, due to where I'm from on the map, but noooo...I think you are far from horrible. My late stepdad, when freshly hospitalized one round of his illnesses told me that he would come back and haunt me if I didn't go immediately with my friend and her parents to a Red Sox game, just behind the warm up circle. No, not terrible if your team is smack dab in the middle of a serious playoff round. I'm sure your friends husband would rather think sports anyways...it's a glue that binds, so to speak.