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SingDanceRunLife said:
I can't be that blunt. I always drop hints instead. They can be MAJOR hints, but with stuff like this, it's never straight up.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Since you're not telling her directly, maybe she is not getting your "hints." Learning how to tell others our needs is a major effort for many people in therapy, such as myself! Maybe just think of it as an exercise in personal growth and see if you can change your usual approach and tell her directly what you need. I bet your T will be proud if you can do this.