I came here to post about this so I would not be tempted to reply to her email. You know like to remind her I said I didn't want to email!

That's why they call it hoovering.
Like a Hoover vacuum cleaner...it sucks you right back in.

Well, geez, it was
only last week I said no more emails. So it's not like she forgot.
We don't live near one another but I am taking a holiday in two weeks where I will be less than an hour from where she lives. I already told her I thought getting together would not be something I wanted to do this year.
Sorry am posting a lot about this situation but it has caused me a lot of stress.