Darkeyes,
Thanks for the advice. I was so close to dumping him the week of Christmas, but our relationship seems like it is doing so much better. Better than it has been in the beginning. I am not going to give him anymore chances, If he messes up again I am going to walk away and don't turn back. I have the strength to do that, but I am going to see how our relationship works and he is showing that he wants to be about it so I am going to give him the benefit of the doubt until he does something to f**k it up. I am out the door. You know the song " When a Woman's Fed Up " by R Kelly. Well I will be beyond fed up and won;t even think or consider getting back with him and he knows that. He just got a cell phone turned on so I know that it will be very easy for him to slip up when a cell phone is involved. If he doesn't slip up on that tip I am going to be really surprised. I guess I am just preparing myself now for anything because when he hurts me again it will be easier for me to move on and/or walk away no matter what I feel for him. Right now he is making me happy and I am happy and that is all that matters. His father, my man, and I had a talk a few days ago and his father said that I can come and move in with them. I would love to move in with my man considering that I am always there anyway and I am not getting along with my family at home, but I don't know what to do. What do you think that I should do? We have only been together for a few months. We both love each other and his parents really like me. His father told me that other day that I was his daughter and he is my father. His father also said that he loves me. He also excepts me for who I am he doesn't faught me for my past. That meant alot to me. His father and I talk all the time. My father nor any other grown man has talked to me like his father talks to me. That means a lot to me too. Well I hope to hear from you soon.Take care and I hope that your holidays were nice