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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I understand. It's terrible that you have to live in fear of that. I've been there myself with a malignant narcissist.
It is complicated with a longer-term friendship.
DO take good care of yourself... journal away. Take a bubble bath. Sing songs. Write poetry. Walk in nature. Let all that is good inside and into your soul. Breathe the fresh air. You are ridding yourself of her toxicity, which can seep into one's very soul and taint it.
 the Mrs! |
I am not "living in fear." I just think that you can go NO CONTACT on an emotional level and that is usually enough. But I do know if I block her on social media it will really stir up the hornet's nest...and then I would have fear and stress...both things I am trying to avoid.
If I block her it will just send a message that I am upset. If I
simply ignore her that's a different message, I think.
For me I think the best thing is to throw myself whole-heartedly into my work projects as that is really where I feel best.
Thanks. Hope married life is going well! The first week!
So cute!
