Well, this month we both have birthdays...mine a week before hers.

If she sends me a birthday card will I reciprocate?

I don't think I will even if she sends me a card.


I really hate how she just goes on...as if nothing happened. I don't see this written up much as something the narcissist does...but I have found it to be true.

They shove all the crap under the carpet. They never resolve anything.

I am pretty sure she will send me a birthday card.

I don't think I will reciprocate...for the first time in decades.

For me, I hate doing things year in and year out just out of habit. I like progress, change, re-invention.

I'm not really enjoying the whole card sending thing, anyway. I do also get ecards but I am growing tired of it.

So...if I don't send her a card she will be really hurt and I guess that will be the end of it.

But No Contact is No Contact. I must remain strong.