block her. delete the contacts. if you are going to end it, end it. don't play the game to see what she is goin g to do. if the friendship is truly over then just end it. I think that by leaving it half open & checking on it you are doing yourself no favors and are playing right into it just as much as she is...

if you really don't want any contact why would you leave it so you can see contact? who cares what people say, it is none of their business. anyone asks say we are no longer friends, etc. period.

regardless of how long the friendship has been if it is over, it is over. talk the talk, walk the walk...otherwise the drama will continue.