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Originally Posted by resurgam
you asked for opinions, I gave you mine. it's what you get when you post on an open forum. you don't have to like my opinion but hey it's an option I thought might work. to me if you want to end a friendship and not deal with someone, well then don't deal with them. emotionally, physically, what ever.
I have had friends like this who wouldn't let go...even after I ended the friendship..finally I had to cease all contact. either you want contact and are friends and need to keep contact or you don't want contact and are not friends. emotional energy or not. if we are not friends then I am not worried about their energy.
physical no contact? I assume you want no contact with someone who is not your friend?
please do what ever you want. it's your life and your friend.
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Psych Central is mainly a forum for
positive support. Although you may be sincere in your advice (and you will note I did thank you for your comment) your tone is becoming combative. No need. It sounds like you are upset your advice is not being taken. There is really no "right" or "wrong" here. And for the record...I didn't ask for specific advice. I just put out a thread about something that has been happening to me. I see you are new here. It takes awhile to learn how to lend support. I suggest you read a lot of the other threads to get an idea of how it's done on this forum. It's all about learning how to respectfully disagree, if that arises. Also...I didn't ask for advice. Please take note of that.
