Update , we both had a long talk about our future , this past weekend , we decided that we were going to get a apartment together and try to live where she is now , im going to go to school there while she works full time at her daycare , we will see where it goes from there , right now im nervous on going to a bigger city and going to college so its all new to me but its time to get out of my parents house and live on my own , she didnt tell me because she didnt think i would want to come with her , and it was a last second job offer she got so she took it , so im going up in September and a new chapter in my life its scary but im excited at the same time , just hope things work out . thanks for all the great advice i sure hope this works out . any advice to help with the anxiety in moving to a bigger city and starting a new life with my girlfriend ? let me know here or pm thanks friends ! have a good night .