Does he find you attractive?

Also I am quite confused on importance of liking someone’s appearance or someone being good looking is being of importance. I’ve been with men whom I was in love with and were attracted to but they weren’t particularly attractive and I didn’t give it two thoughts.

Do people really equate attraction to “liking how one looks”? I’ve been on this Earth over 50 years and I never thought that liking someone’s appearance and being attracted to them/in love is the same thing! Such emphasis on looks sounds very foreign to me.