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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
Y'know reading this I think maybe this is what L was talking about, when she asked me if I could take my relationship with her into my other relationships. That I've started doing with my h at long last. Thanks for helping me really understand what she was saying.
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I'm happy for you. I think it's especially hard to do this truthy thing in an existing relationship; you deserve a lot of credit. It seems easier to me to break this kind of pattern in a new relationship.
I think I had a good marriage in a lot of ways, but not in this most important piece. Being with someone who is inspiring in her honesty with me has encouraged me to push past my fear of being afraid of telling the truth. And I realize what I've been missing in relationships and it is just pretty awesome.