You are NOT an old curmudgeon Mopey. I have read your thoughtful and empathetic responses to others. You'd be a strong candidate for a PC honor in my view. See what I mean? So many people don't even realize how much they are valued!

That said, I understand and accept your perspective. I do think that honors could be presented in a gracious and pleasant way without making anyone feel small or "less than." But that is just my perspective. You are of course entitled to yours. And I will always give someone credit for directly and respectfully disagreeing with an idea they don't like. That's good for mental health: assertive! Props to you