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Originally Posted by divine1966
Personally if I am not attracted to a person I am trying to date, I’d not be holding hands or kiss or cuddle. I just don’t feel like it if I am not attracted to them. Now I am very affectionate and am kissing hugging with family members/my kid/my niece etc etc but family is different.
So do you feel comfortable kissing hugging and holding hands with a boyfriend even if not feeling attraction for him? Just trying to understand
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He's the only person I've ever felt comfortable with when it comes to physical contact. I don't hug and kiss family because I never got used to it, and being touched made me recoil. But with my S/O, it all feels very natural and enjoyable. Holding hands and hugging is easy for me to do with him, and I've gotten better with kissing (to the point where he doesn't need to take the lead as much anymore).