Hello,

I’ve been on/off with my first serious relationship for about 8 months now. We dated for about a month but his ex wanted to get back together so he ended it by calling me and saying “All you are good for is sex, maybe you should change who you are so someone takes you seriously, you’re a failure...”. A month later he decided to re communicate and I decided to give him a second chance given that the first guy I was with for about 6 months simply ghosted so I thought if he wants to get back together that means he cares. For the first month and a half he cried on a near daily basis since he couldn’t get over his ex. He decides to return to the ex and same things with the insults by telephone. Ends it with the ex two weeks later and returns. I know I don’t love him but I don’t know how to leave. He has threatened with taking his own life, I have already reported him and only went to a psychologist once. My friends absolutely hate him. How do I leave?