Does your university have career counselling rather than "therapy counselling"? Can you find someone who does career counselling in your community?
Can't blame yourself for what you didn't know at the time you set up the first appointment.....not like they told you that if you are seeing a therapist they can't help you.
I personally take finding help one step at a time. If my first attempt doesn't work out I keep looking. Help is usually there somewhere.
My EX-H would give up totally if his first attempt at anything was not what he expected or wanted. Definitely NOT a good trait to develop in life. Keep searching for the answers you need. Have you talked about this with the therapist you are seeing? Maybe you could get some searching direction for answers there?
Don't give up!!!!