Ok. And then there's this temp agency that is flexible with my schedule as I deal with my mother's now diagnosed Alzheimers since I live with her. I don't work very much for them but I come in when I can. Should I count on them as a positive job reference? Because of my personal situation? I contacted an old drum instructor for a reference he said no. I contacted an old temp reference and she said no. So far, just "no's".