threatens. Whether or not he means it, or is just saying it he needs to be accountable. He needs help either way and you cant live with the weight of someone else's pain on your shoulders.
https://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/be...motional-abuse
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Signs of codependency include:
Having difficulty making decisions in a relationship
Having difficulty identifying your feelings
Having difficulty communicating in a relationship
Valuing the approval of others more than valuing yourself
Lacking trust in yourself and having poor self-esteem
Having fears of abandonment or an obsessive need for approval
Having an unhealthy dependence on relationships, even at your own cost
Having an exaggerated sense of responsibility for the actions of others
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I think you need therapy and asap. After only a month you are wrapped up in this abusive man and you should not be. There is a good book called "codependent no more" by Melody Beattie and I think you should check it out.
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