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Old May 17, 2019, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post


I feel I ended up taking a risk and getting a reward here. I know it could have gone badly, but I'm impressed with how my T handled it. I really didn't think we'd discuss it much at all. The fact that he picked out a line that he figured had meaning to me, and was correct about it (it wasn't necessarily an obvious line to pick out, though they do repeat it some)--that meant a lot and made me feel understood.
LT, I really feel that risk taking is a big deal for you-- and something that may hold a key to greater happiness. Risk taking is similar to what you already do well-- which is tell the truth in therapy. Maybe risk taking is the behavioral analogy to speaking truth. But I think it's great. I think you should do more of it. IME in relationships, including therapy, risk taking carries big payoffs and little knock downs. A balance I can live with.
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, unaluna