OK, so I am a *little* nervous. I love Pdoc but part of the reason I stopped working with her was I didn’t have a T and she didn’t know of a T she felt had the skills to work with me in the state. She knows like everyone. It wasn’t in a bad way, she finds me rather easy to work with, it was just she couldn’t find anyone with the skills that would be a good fit. Awesome T has also worked in this state forever and had heard of Pdoc but didn’t say anything more. I know as a general rule he does not like Pdocs. So... I am a little scared that Pdoc will know T and know something bad about him or have a reason why he might not be safe. I know it is just crazies... but I also know Pdoc has NO filters and if she doesn’t like T she will say it. I am hoping if she does know him that the reason she wouldn’t refer to him was because he is a man and she might not have thought I was ready for a male T yet.