Well, friends now won't give ceremony and reception details so we can't organise times for partner and son to call each other. Apparently they're "playing it by ear" which, having actually begun to plan a wedding myself, is the biggest load of bollocks I've ever heard.
But this is now a safety issue.
The last time partner was away and I was unable to give him details of at least roughly where partner was, when he'd be home, or when we could call, son had such a huge meltdown that I had to tell partner to get home ASAP and almost had to call an ambulance to sedate son (literally had my phone in my hand, dialing emergency, as partner messaged saying he was 15mins away).
Given partner will be in a different state, 4-5hrs away, I'm facing the very real possibility of us ending up in hospital, all because these people don't want to give details which every other damn person has.