Years ago when I first started seeing my T Richard. My husband saw him once for his own problems and Richard told him that he would find him a good T but he would not see him again, he will not see us both unless it’s strictly couples counseling. But I really need intensive Therapy so Steve got started with another T

He feels that seeing both would set him up to pick a side or unknowingly give out advice just off what the other one reporting etc.

I’ve said this to you so many times it’s not funny but here’s my last time.

Why do you have your husband with you seeing a T ? And seeing the same T ? Therapy is a place where we can just unload and be honest and not worry about hurting ones feelings and I cant imagine that happening if your husband is sitting there.

Stay safe